Fish is trying Dating sites??

[fruckert]

...nasty wrinkly and purple?

[Tina Branford]

A lot of girls like yaoi, but frankly I don't understand it. Why would I want to look at anime guys kissing (or worse)? Might as well go do it for real. Of course, looking at yaoi's safer than going to a bar and trying to find a guy... but still. It's like a lot of guys' obsession with porn; why would you want to look at sex when you could just go out there and do it? Meh, I guess I just don't understand it.

[Red Giant]

why would you want to look at sex when you could just go out there and do it?

I think you're belittling the difference in effort here.

Unless there's a button on this thing for "generate woman that is sexually interested in me."

IS THERE ARE YOU GUYS HOLDING OUT ON ME

[Uberpwn_w00t]

I guess I just don't understand it.

Obviously not.

[Valiere]

A lot of girls like yaoi, but frankly I don't understand it. Why would I want to look at anime guys kissing (or worse)? Might as well go do it for real. Of course, looking at yaoi's safer than going to a bar and trying to find a guy... but still. It's like a lot of guys' obsession with porn; why would you want to look at sex when you could just go out there and do it? Meh, I guess I just don't understand it.

I think part of it is the fact that sex requires some effort and "skill" that she could be judging you on. Masturbating to porn probably isn't as exciting but it doesn't put you on the spot.

And yaoi? The thing with two guys getting it on, other than 1 + 1 = 2, is it's totally nonthreatening, and in addition you don't have to ponder whether any of the guys would give you the time of day. No-possible-win situation, no possibility of any self-esteem wounding rejection.

[Prpl_Mage]

...nasty wrinkly and purple?

Talking behind my back again?

And yaoi? The thing with two guys getting it on, other than 1 + 1 = 2, is it's totally nonthreatening, and in addition you don't have to ponder whether any of the guys would give you the time of day. No-possible-win situation, no possibility of any self-esteem wounding rejection.

So it's kinda like "If I see two guys doing it it's cool because I'm a girl. That will never happen to me because I'm a girl and not a boy - doesn't matter if a guy doesn't think I'm sexy enough. He wants other boys after all! Also... It's mighty fine to see Draco Malfoy and Sasuke getting it together - they are both pretty hot."

[fruckert]

Talking behind my back again?

Actually, I seriously did think about making a crack at your mom.
But I didn't because that's Archems job.

[Ben]

this thread is repulsive

[Deathreaper]

A lot of girls like yaoi, but frankly I don't understand it. Why would I want to look at anime guys kissing (or worse)? Might as well go do it for real. Of course, looking at yaoi's safer than going to a bar and trying to find a guy... but still. It's like a lot of guys' obsession with porn; why would you want to look at sex when you could just go out there and do it? Meh, I guess I just don't understand it.

That comment in it's whole is pure epic win.

So it's kinda like "If I see two guys doing it it's cool because I'm a girl. That will never happen to me because I'm a girl and not a boy - doesn't matter if a guy doesn't think I'm sexy enough. He wants other boys after all! Also... It's mighty fine to see Draco Malfoy and Sasuke getting it together - they are both pretty hot."

That one is too

[Drace]

this thread is repulsive

I agree, it's become way worse.

[Darkfox]

this thread is repulsive

Indeed, it makes my eyes bleed.

[Rahl]

I met my girl online, not so much through a dating site as a gaming site and have been talking with her for over 4 years now. I've been actually seeing her for over 3, this makes the 3rd summer we have spent together, and we have been engaged for 1 year now. Long distance relationships are really hard but in this case it worked out really well. If you have to date online make sure you are everything you say you are and you can trust whoever it is they say they are.

[Fisherson]

I met my girl online, not so much through a dating site as a gaming site and have been talking with her for over 4 years now. I've been actually seeing her for over 3, this makes the 3rd summer we have spent together, and we have been engaged for 1 year now. Long distance relationships are really hard but in this case it worked out really well. If you have to date online make sure you are everything you say you are and you can trust whoever it is they say they are.

Finaly back on topic and good advice. Thanks man. I will.

[Ben]

WHY ARE YOU SEEKEING DATING ADVICE FROM CHARAS?!? THIS IS NOT LIVEJOURNAL. THESE PEOPLE DONT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT DATING, THEY ARE FICTICIOUS INTERNET PERSONAS. FISH, IF YOU LIKE "PLUMP" GIRLS, GO LOOK FOR ADVICE ON A FAT-GIRL FORUM.

[Darkfox]

I don't think he means "fat", or at least, I hope not. O_o