Is cheating so bad?

[Nandez]

Ok say you like someone or loved them and care about them Let us call them B.
Say you don't like who they are with at all let's call them A.

Say you knew B cheated but you care about B and want them to be happy and hate A.

would it still be a good idea to tell A about it or shut up.

[Cerebus]

Seems like there's a lot of cheating on your surrounding!
I personally think cheating is one of the worst thing to do. No one deserve it (although there are some exceptions, just like for everything). B person is a bitch, in my opinion, even if you care for her/him. I guess you could tell A, but many people may come and say "mind your own business". I'm not one of them, though. However, telling A might screw a lots of things depending on the circumstances. I know a girl who cheated on her boyfriend (with two guys at the same time, mind you) but I know telling him could fruck it all... plus, with all the bullschnitz she and one of the guy told him, he would probably not believe me anyway. So I didn't, but some times I wish I had the guts to take the risk of messing all and tell him.

[Nandez]

Seems like there's a lot of cheating on your surrounding!
I personally think cheating is one of the worst thing to do. No one deserve it (although there are some exceptions, just like for everything). B person is a bitch, in my opinion, even if you care for her/him. I guess you could tell A, but many people may come and say "mind your own business". I'm not one of them, though. However, telling A might screw a lots of things depending on the circumstances. I know a girl who cheated on her boyfriend (with two guys at the same time, mind you) but I know telling him could fruck it all... plus, with all the bullschnitz she and one of the guy told him, he would probably not believe me anyway. So I didn't, but some times I wish I had the guts to take the risk of messing all and tell him.

Ah there lies my dilemma.
I have been cheated on before and yes I see it as the most sickening thing someone can do I want to be quiet and let A and B be happy because I don't think B would ever do it ago but I dunno if A should know or not still.
I don't like A but still.

[drenrin2120]

If I never cheated, I would've never graduated high school.






...er, wait...

[zuhane]

I think cheating is completely off limits no matter what the circumstances. Even if the person is unhappy
or isn't sexually fulfilled, they still shouldn't cheat. Anyone who does causes tremendous amounts of pain
to the ones they cheat on. Being cheated on, to me, is worse than:

1. Being knocked out at my Taekwondo competition.
2. My dog dying.
3. My parents breaking up.
4. The end of Final Fantasy X.

[drenrin2120]

How bad it sucks depends really: how long you been with them? How well do you know them? How much have you grown to care about them? How well they know your friends and family? How much of a whiny, immature, clingy bitch are you?... *insert list of variables here*

Yeah, just don't cheat on people. There really is no exception. If you feel dissatisfied with the relationship maybe it's time to evaluate the relationship. If the problems can't be fixed or the two partners involved can't come to a mutual agreement, then they should just break up. Of course, "just break up" is always easier said than done.

[Nandez]

How bad it sucks depends really: how long you been with them? How well do you know them? How much have you grown to care about them? How well they know your friends and family? How much of a whiny, immature, clingy bitch are you?... *insert list of variables here*

Yeah, just don't cheat on people. There really is no exception. If you feel dissatisfied with the relationship maybe it's time to evaluate the relationship. If the problems can't be fixed or the two partners involved can't come to a mutual agreement, then they should just break up. Of course, "just break up" is always easier said than done.

I ended up telling A against my better judgement but only because A was going to confront B by telling A I bought a little time. I hate A but I didn't want to hurt em. I only care about B but I feel like **** because I know B loves A or b pretends because A is close even after B told me they won't last to be extremely serious, eventually A will confront B and B will probally end up hating me also.

[Razor]

I think cheating is completely off limits no matter what the circumstances. Even if the person is unhappy
or isn't sexually fulfilled, they still shouldn't cheat. Anyone who does causes tremendous amounts of pain
to the ones they cheat on. Being cheated on, to me, is worse than:

1. Being knocked out at my Taekwondo competition.
2. My dog dying.
3. My parents breaking up.
4. The end of Final Fantasy X.

FFX had a great ending. The world was without Tidus.
The only way it could be better is if they made it so FF8 never happened in real life.

[Nandez]

L thinks you're stupid because you keep using letters instead of telling us who you're talking about and those letters do nothing but confuse us. Plus we don't even know who those people are. What could possibly go wrong if you said something like "my friend" and "his girlfriend" or whatever?

L dislikes me no matter what and I wanted advice with revealing others people lives like oh there names or that he or she is my friend etc. How does using a name and a letter differ?

[Cerebus]

One thing is sure; if you love someone, you're not supposed to cheat on him/her. Right?
So if B says "Oh I love you, A!" then I say bullschnitz. Clearly didn't love him/her enough if s/he felt the need to cheat on him/her. So I'll go and say B just pretend to love A and stay with him/her for some reasons. And if B end up hating you then clearly s/he is a bitch, sorry to say. Especially if s/he comes to say "But I trusted you!" or schnitz like that.

[X_marks_the_ed]

There are 1 on every 10000 cases where the people could be forgiven.

I'm guessing it involves money.

[Cerebus]

I don't think there are any reason why one should be forgiven for cheating.
"Oh I was confused" well screw ya, piss off, go get confused by who you want somewhere else. If I stab someone to death because I was confused, I doubt people will forgive me entirely. And you know what's completely retarded? "Ok, I will cheat you too so we'll be equal." What the heck!?

[Nandez]

Now they are both scremaing at me. Ugh I knew the truth was a bad idea the truth is always a ****ing bad idea.

[Cerebus]

No, truth is rarely a bad idea.
They're idiot, then. Well... A is much more. You warn him/her about is boy/girlfriend cheating on him/her and s/he's mad at you? Then s/he's an idiot and enter the few exceptions that deserve to be cheated. B being angry is kinda normal, but s/he's still an idiot.

[Ben]

Lesson to be learned:

     Mind your own business.