Breaking Up And Down

[Desimodontidae]

Well I'm kinda late to the party, but I wanted to give some input. Most of my breakups have been hard and emotional, but that's because those relationships were serious. You can't just sit there and cry and beg, but instead try to talk things over and find out what went wrong (as long as it didn't end all violent an crazy). You just have to get over it and move on, but telling people to suck it up an be a man is totally not right, I think it takes more character to feel a wide range of emotions - including sadness - than to just be a stone (or I guess to some people, a MAN). Also I use the mistakes I made to improve and try to avoid making the same mistakes as last time. But each breakup is like a new chance to try out new things. Each end is a new beginning, and crap like that.

[Nandez]

Only when the flaming starts.
Which is inevitable when Nandez is the one with the topic...
Man, you're like a drama magnet, you know that?

Most of the time I don't really do anything to get flamed. Actually though the only person who really flamed me was Lucas and maybe two others in the picture thread most people just poked fun which I didn't mine (like Archem) and Lucas hasn't really flamed me in this topic and I doubt he was going too.
The only real flame was gemini's first post.  It's not like I was asking for drama or to be flamed just chose a topic I was curious about, maybe next time I'll choose a topic that has a a smaller chance of turning dramatic.

[fruckert]

Shush.
Just...let it go.
You really like to drag arguments out, man.

[SaiKar]

This topic shoulda been locked before we got to page 2 before the drama started.

Not really how I roll, and the other mods are lazy, so...

You could do a lot worse than taking advice from gemini... who *skims thread* is apparently gay? ... anyway though. Guy's a cynical bastard for sure, but at least he's realistic about things.

[Ben]

Ok I have to ask no this is not a "Charas Is My Journal" post but I was wondering have you guys ever broke up with anyone like really broke up not like hey its over I mean have you ever broke up with anyone and gone through this entire hour long scene?
Like some of my relationships have gone on way longer than they should just because I couldn't do it from their crying and begging just couldn't follow through with it. Like dude you have to be cold hearted to get through that. How the hell do you get through that crap cause I'm sure out of everyone here one of you have at least once. I mean really.

Ok I have to ask .............. I was wondering have you guys ever broke up with anyone like really broke up not like hey its over I mean....................
Like some of my relationships have..................... because I couldn't do it from their crying and begging........................cold hearted to get through that........................I'm sure out of everyone here one of you have at least once. I mean really.

You clearly were asking for advice. Its all of all. It has all been on topic. I didn't flame. You asked for my opinion and then got sand in your vagina when I gave it to you.

No rule has been broken. I was blunt. You asked. But apparently I'm not entitled to have insight that is not convenient to your motives. The issue here is not gender or your cultural niche, but the fact that you behave like a spoiled child...but then again, it appears that you behave as such because you are one.

The mods typically don't lock all of all topics that have no reason to be locked. I could have locked the topic myself, if I had any reason to do so. I fail to understand why this discussion would merit such consequence

...... I was ... crying and begging.....

P.S.  Thanks Sai

[HackersTotalMassLaser]

i knew that pink in his sig meant something.

[fruckert]

That would mean that Zuhane knows/knew something...

[Nandez]

Lmao it's funny too see you pretend to know something when you know nothing about me gemini.
Believe what you want I'm tired of you acting like a brat. So calling me a "girly bitch" isn't flaming or at least insulting?  It's amusing to me how you think I have a motive if I really wanted advice on how to break up with someone I wouldn't ask people on a forum were I constantly get flamed in 80% of the topics I make a comment in after the last time I actually  did ask advice. Oh and spoiled? Don't make me laugh. I'm may be vain, shallow, and egotistical but I am a long way from spoiled. I'm not the only one who thinks this should have been locked I just thought it should be to prevent it from turning into a flame war.
Either way I'm done replying in this topic and to you. I'm tired of your complete stupidity pretending you have this incredible insight into my nonexsitent motive.
What got on my nerves was what not your comments, insult, or your "advice" it was you annoyingly insisting I made this topic because I wanted advice Like you can read my mind when I made this topic because I was ****ing bored at 4 A.M. and couldn't think of anything better to make a topic about. You don't need gemini's incredibly insight to figure that I'm simply just annoyed that after I was willing to let this topic go anywhere it wanted and stop going back and forth with you and let everything fall to the side and forget this crap but for some reason you wanted to just keep going and dragging this crap out.

Doei, I'm done with this topic and this conversation. Have fun.

[HobomasterXXX]

Charas is not a touchy-feely forum. And all I've seen you do is make topics about relationships and associated stuff. It doesn't mesh well with the dynamic of the board at all so you get a harsh response.

[HackersTotalMassLaser]

Doei, I'm done with this topic and this conversation. Have fun.

No you're not. Gemini's a douche, and you're a punk, and I am a psychiatrist.

[fruckert]

HTML has a huge sig.
I think the boobs make it so that I don't really care, though.

Yeah, what Hobo said, though.

[HackersTotalMassLaser]

The profile things says I barely make it before the limit.

And don't pay attention to the boobs, pay attention to the robot's reaction! That's why I have it!

[fruckert]

He looks shocked.
I'd be more like 'o.o than O.o

[Prpl_Mage]

Well, both HTML and Sai's sigs includes boobs. At first it was a bit "whoa, maybe I should scroll up a little bit to avoid that" but after some year(s) it kinda lost the effect. It's just another part of the forum now.

No staring at boobs or anything although other people sometimes react like "what the hell are you doing looking at cartoon porn?"

[SaiKar]

My sig was supposed to be kind of a "Hey, Charas is awesome, look at all these characters people made" kind of thing. Um, with swimsuits and boobs, I guess.

I guess I'm due for a new one. Though that'll probably include boobs too actually. There's no real escape.